亲爱的骑士:
我在8月的时候向您提问过一次,但是您说,要有顺其自然的心,默默的走,至于我是否努力挽回,没有什么差别。我当时没有给您的答复做评论,因为我觉得不服气,觉得我可以改变,您在豆瓣小组也说,占卜的结果可以改变的是吗,所以我想,等有了好结局,再来告诉您,我成功了。
很遗憾,我努力了大半年以后,终于发现,真的没有结果。他说现在给不了我答案(潜台词可能是想等结束了异地再说)。可是我觉得我一个人付出了这么久,现在到尽头了,我已经受不了他的态度,所以最近我发作了,逼他给一个结果。可是他坚持不见面,不接电话。我觉得他很痛苦,甚至能觉得他是喜欢我的。我觉得他有心结不能解开,但是他坚决不说。 我隐约觉得,是因为上一次的异地恋,面对恋人的劈腿,所以现在坚决不选择异地,只想等到我毕业。但是我真的忍耐到了尽头。骑士在二月的感情分析,和我的情况一摸一样,所以我很想来问问,我这么逼他,做错了吗?我能不能成功让他讲出心里话?
还有就是,也许骑士会觉得我装圣母,但是我觉得,这个人是我从失恋的泥潭里拉出来,看着他成长的,我很希望他一辈子幸福,我很担心,他会养成逃避懦弱的性格,一直不懂得追求幸福。其实如果他离开我是幸福的,我觉得我可以走。所以拜托骑士看一下他的盘,看他是不是会一直逃避下去,我还是希望可以帮到他。
非常感谢骑士!
个人资料:略
异地恋,一个很棘手的问题,不看星盘、不看牌,客观地说,他不给你答案也是一种处理方法,不是么?不你们正式结束异地情况前不给你回答,这没有错吧?
他是喜欢你的,因此没有给你决绝的答案,暂时保持目前的状态以观后效,你非要揭这层皮,你又何必去逼人家呢?而且我并不觉得他这算是逃避啊,如果他给了你“结束”这个答案,你又会是什么心情呢?不一样觉得“付出了这么久,竹篮子打水”?
有意思地是,你自己都没有准备出与对方决绝的另一半解决方案只是在向对方要答案,两个人的心理需求不同的情况下对感情的解决就是扯皮。
说到付出,还没到真正付出的时候或是你真正付出过什么吧,因为你们还没有真的在一起过对么?
我想不该再有第三次提问在这个话题上了。
以上仅供参考。

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